What did people do with computers before the Internet
This dovetails perfectly with questions about why it was acceptable not to have the latest and greatest at all times. You bought a computer to do what you needed, and until your needs changed, that computer worked fine. The reason this isn't quite the case today is because security is such a big concern and any internet/network-connected computer has "receives patches" as a high priority need. Plus, the movement toward doing everything on the web and web-based applications (Electron) running on the desktop means that for certain use cases that looked trivial a decade ago, there's no longer any way to get enough computer.
The '80s and '90s were a time of immense and rapid change, but one of the important things to note is that Internet connectivity, and Internet being quite as central to daily computer life as it is today, only really started happening in the late '90s. Before that, if you were going to exchange data with somebody, you had to already know them in advance, have a way to do it (often involving FedEx or the USPS), and know what their computing setup was like, or simplifying the data you sent them into as common a format as possible so they could read it.
If it's 1992 and I have a Macintosh with Claris applications and you have a PC with Microsoft Office, the best way for us to transfer data will be as plain text files on PC-format diskettes.
My earliest experiences are with the public Internet, and what I did back then (this is around 1999-2003) was basically stuff like visit this forum (which was launched in 2001 or 2002) and use some of the hotline servers that surrounded at the time. I didn't get on IRC until a few years later, but the protocol itself is around 30 years old (I believe it was specified in 1986 or 1987.)
It's worth noting that CompuServ, AOL, etc weren't really Internet service provider. The service that, say, Compuserv was providing wasn't the Internet. It was Compuserv. AOL, likewise, was its own entirely unique service that for much of its existence wasn't connected with the commodity Internet at all. That came along in the '90s.
One to look at when you've got time is eWorld.
This page has a good published book from the time about eWorld, which was Apple's attempt at an online service for Macintosh users. eWorld didn't last very long, probably for a lot of different reasons, but notably it was pretty expensive and didn't allow users of any other types of computers on, so its usefulness was limited for things like "e-mailing a grandparent" if said grandparent didn't also have a Mac.