Don't worry
@CC_333, I understand. I have been in almost the same situation for the past year

. I thankfully found something recently that'll keep me busy and afloat.
I'll keep the extra sets on hand until someone wants them. Don't worry, one has your name on it. In the meantime, if you want to try your luck with the old PSU, I would recommend using a power strip that has a switch on it (plug everything in and then switch the outlet on). That arcing sound when you try to plug it in "casually" doesn't seem right.
In other news, I've had some issues with the AC board. As you can see from the previous pictures, there used to be an earth plane pretty much everywhere but on the DC side of the relay. Apparently this can cause issues and it's best to remove it. Thanks to alumbrado on r/vintageapple for suggesting it. I have since done more research on the matter and it is indeed not recommended to have one.
Here is the new current design (v0.6):

The minimum distance (clearance and creepage combined) between AC and DC is now 10mm. Apparently (and according to a post on this
thread), the minimum safe distance for 240V AC (in this case 240V is critical, not 120V) is 5.5mm so there shouldn't be any issues. I am now sure that I over dimensioned pretty much everything. The minimum clearance between the AC tracks (Neutral, Phase, Earth) is now 4.5mm. But we're talking tracks, not plated holes, so this is well above the 'acceptable distance' of 1.6mm. I've also had to take another look at the original board because depending on the type of load (inductive, resistive...), snubbers may be required. Delta didn't use anything to protect the relay from the monitor, so it should be fine without it.
I am still having issues with the cables for this mod. I've found the original specs:
https://www.wontex.com/products_3_b.php?gid=7
but I can't find new cheap ones that aren't bigger... I am now considering using 18 or 20AWG. More to follow.