And where could I find a diagram of the macintosh motherboard?
That's a really good question. There are detailed full schematics for the Mac Plus floating around but all that easily turns up on a search for schematics for the original models is this "cheat sheet" diagram that may be perfectly fine for a troubleshooting tech to use but if you're groping around in the dark it's not going to help you a whole lot. Frankly I think you're going to have to have this damaged motherboard in front of you and noodle it out. Use a continuity tester (most multimeters have a "beep" setting built in now for that) to double-check what you trace with your eyes.
Because *I* don't have a mac motherboard sitting in front of me there are limits to the precision of the things I can tell you.
Where are the address and control bus?
Here is a datasheet for the type of RAMs used in the Mac 512k Look at the pinout for the 16 pin DIP package of this type of RAM. Pins 1, 5-7, and 9-13 compose the multiplexed address bus, while pins 3, 4, and 15 are the "control" pins that orchestrate the multiplexing of the address bus, refresh, and when data is to be read from or written to the chip. Here is a clip from a picture I scrounged up a Mac motherboard that's had all its RAM removed to install an upgrade that hangs directly off the CPU socket and whatnot, showing the traces between the RAM chips:
This is actually a really useful picture because it shows pretty clearly that all of those pins are tied together in each row of sockets. Also, helpfully enough, notice that pins 2 and 14, which are the "D" and "Q" pins, IE, "Data In" and "Data Out" pins, are *not* tied together, so unless they are on the other side of the board that supports my conclusion that those are the correct pins to require jumpers.
Finally, what are the 2 wires i need to solder
As I said earlier, to try this you'll take pins #2 and #14 on each chip you're going to add to replace the RAM you ripped out and *carefully* bend those legs of the chips up and out of the way to when you stack the chip on the one below they won't touch the corresponding pin. Then you will press the chip in on top of the one already on the board and tack each remaining leg to the one below it. Here's roughly what it'll look like, in this case in a chip not already soldered down:
*Then* what you will do is solder wire jumpers to the pins you bent up and out of the way (or maybe you'll want to do this first, just make sure to make the jumpers long enough to go where they have to), and then you will route those jumpers in such a way that they connect to the destinations those pins *used* to connect to on the IC areas you destroyed.
Here's a photo of the non-component side of a Mac motherboard but I totally do not have the patience to follow the traces and figure out where the best place for you to run those wires to is. You *could* try running them to the holes for pin 2 and 14 in the holes you mangled, gluing them down on the component side, and then seeing dumping enough solder into place gets you a working connection to the end of the trace, but my guess is you'll be better off following the trace to the next VIA or IC pin it terminates at and anchoring it there on the component side.
AND AGAIN, I HAVE TO REITERATE: Look at the picture I put in above that shows how the traces for the control lines are all wired in parallel, and notice how each socket's trace comes from the contact point of the last socket. You didn't post a picture of your whole board showing which positions you mangled, but there's a really good chance you damaged connectivity to any sockets "downstream" of the ones you worked on, which means the control bus will be incomplete and you'll have to fix that *too*. You can do that by tacking jumper wires between the matching IC legs/solder pads of either side of the holes you made. You can *check* to see how bad the situation is with your continuity tester by sticking it against the aforementioned control bus pins (IE, basically everything except numbers 2 and 14) at one end of each line of chips and touching the matching pin on every chip in the row. If you don't get a beep you've got something to fix.