edit: didn't understand much at all of what you were saying above, but this panel has a USB 2.0 input, does that help?
That's unfortunate.
The long and short of it, since I guess it wasn't totally clear, is you need to understand there's no pre-baked hardware/software solution for what you were asking to do here; if you want the Raspberry Pi to participate in the conversion from the Portable's LCD output to a more modern display you'll have to write the software to do it, regardless of what your hardware configuration is. IE, it doesn't matter if you get the bitstream from the Portable into the Pi over the GPIO pins, SPI, a USB dingus, whatever, you'll still have to write software to turn that bitstream into a scaled display output. It's not clear to me if you're factoring that into your idea of keeping the Portable's original guts. If you're not up to writing the software then getting the Portable to display on a newer LCD will have to turn into a complete hardware project, which will likely translate to an FPGA, or at least a few CPLDs and probably a RAM chip, to convert the STN output from the Portable into LVDS or TTL LCD signaling. (Or maybe HDMI/DVI or VGA? They're probably all about equally hard.)
Where USB came into it was I stumbled across that *very* cheap little USB 2.0-speed microcontroller dingus that seemingly has real potential for doing high-speed data acquisition along the lines of what you'd be needing for this project; what's really attractive about it is it has a decently size FiFo buffer, which could be immensely useful in compensating for the fact that Linux on the Pi doesn't count as a "real time" operating system and you get it basically for "free" instead of having to build it like you would if you tried using GPIO bitbanging or whatever. Again, this would be for getting bits *into* your Raspberry Pi, not directly to the monitor in any way. The USB port on that monitor seems to be for playing videos/displaying pictures using a built-in media player; basically it looks like it doubles as digital picture frame. Not in any way useful for interfacing it to either a Pi or a Mac Portable.