@adespoton I ended up just throwing OpenWRT on an old switch and setting it up as a dumb-old-internet router, which works well enough, I can reach both local services with jumbo frames (since it does the ICMP bits for the mac) and the internet. I was trying to find IPNetTuner for a while, I'll have to check those other options out. I'm not sure I
need jumbo frames here though
@Phipli thanks for all your work on this, it's awesome. The control strip works great. I do have some 60ns VRAM coming (it was easier to buy the new ones from Kero's mac mods store than find OEM). I also have MC88916DW80 on the way. I am probably not averse to trying to push the machine a little harder in the future, but the control strip is 95% of the way there with 0% of the risk.
Latest pic:

Current status:
- PDS card installed! Works well with normal MTU and network. Has issues with some things, probably would recommend just using a travel router if you have a fancy local network to isolate it.
- BlueSCSI installed! It is awesome. Found two potential issues, mostly resolved:
- The DaynaPORT drivers are a mess. For 7.6.1, use the 7.5.3 installer, and maybe just copy the DRVR resource from it into the system and install nothing else. Spent a while dealing with extension conflicts, and ended up reinstalling Apple ethernet drivers and OT afterward. With two cards, my PDS shows up as "Ethernet (slot 14)" and the DaynaPORT as "Alternate Ethernet". Haven't found the strings to change these.
- The BlueSCSI has several bugs related to ExFAT filesystems, and not all of them are fixed. I will file a bug upstream (or add to the existing one), but it's somehow possible to have an hda image that is blank to linux (all zeroes) be bootable and contain data to the bluescsi. I think this may be related to sparse files, in addition to the existing issues with file lengths. Recommend FAT32 for new installs!
- Sound still doesn't work because RPT-60A shipping is very slow
New issue:
Sad mac on about every other boot. Code is usual 0xf 0x1, sometimes 0x16 I think. Removing everything removable doesn't fix this. I think it's a ROM addressing error? Board inspection around the ROMs seems fine to me. I still need to reflow all the new caps to make sure they are soundly connected, so a cold solder is a possible cause. Still investigating that, not sure if BlueSCSI disk read strangeness with ExFAT could crash it, another possible cause.