IIRC the minimum is 1 Meg, meaning all slots populated with 256 k sticks, Yes you need to have all of them populated, using two 1 Meg in the A bank (the one closer to the Processor) and leaving 256 Ks in the B Bank will give you 2,5 Mo of memory... but a pair of resistors should been removed or clipped (R8 and R9)
Max ram is 4 Meg.
Yes standard 30 pin simm 150ns.