Asante put AUI on a removable passthru board on (later versions?) of the MacCon breakout board. There are instructions in the MacCon manual for installing the DA-15 of a IIsi VidCard's breakout board in its place when installed in the MacCon's passthru.
Pinout's easy, if nobody can take a quick pic of the solder side of the AUI passthru board, I'll scan it when I get a chance. It's a translucent two sided PCB and all the AUI traces are on that side. They should take a pic of the component side for you as well. There is a capacitor and a fuse in that circuit, so you'll need to make provision for those when you do a PCB for your headers and connector.
I'm using an older version of the MacCon in my SE/30. It has AUI and ThinNet only, no 10bT. I'll post a pic of that contraption, the configuration makes sense for your application if you're going WiFi. The breakout board will be installed so the transceiver mounts inside the bucket with its Vonets board so only the WiFi antenna exits at the backplane.