A GGLABS MACSIMM or PurpleROM will work:
Programmable Flash ROM SIMM for Mac SE/30, IIfx and IIsi
www.tindie.com
PurpleROM 2MB 64-pin Flash ROM SIMM for Apple Macintosh computers
www.tindie.com
With a minipro/TL866 and PLCC socket adapters, they're flashable to standard IIsi ROMs. I've been meaning to make a tutorial, maybe I'll get around to it during the holidays.
EDIT:
@olePigeon Also has a patched ROM which, IIRC, should keep the ROMinator features without breaking 040 support:
https://68kmla.org/bb/index.php?threads/custom-bootable-rom-images-for-bmow-simm.30420/#post-324362