Googling turned up nothing for the pre-OS X seeker after truth and DRAM, but there is an alternative take on your problem. If cleaning the edge-connectors (M & F) and reseating, followed by many cycles of RAMometer passes your cards as a whole, surely there is no need to try interrogation of individual cards?
It is one of the tenets of production testing of RAM cards that chips are well-tested by their makers (the scrupulous ones, at least) before they ever get onto cards. Barring catastrophic events after that, most problems with cards lie in the external (to the chips) traces, and perhaps the auxiliary components, if not in the main logic board or card connectors. A mass test after reasonable efforts to eliminate the board and connectors is far easier to perform with available software, and if it clears all components, ends your travails. It is probable that there never will now be freely available software (for Mac) made to test DRAM at the bit, address and control line level.
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