Well, I found an SX off ebay but can't seem to figure out how to output 1024x768 using a bmow sync-inator.
Also, seems a bit weird that I can only set virtual screens (pan and scan), not a set resolution with the e-machine control panel.
Yes, as discussed in the thread I linked in my last post, it does not use the standard monitor sense codes for 1024x768 (and 1152x870). It uses an otherwise-undocumented sense code, and the small rotary switch that's on the top edge of the card.
The sense code that is required is SENSE0 unconnected, and a diode from SENSE2 to SENSE1. I don't know if the Synicinator is capable of generating that sense code, but the ubiquitous adapters with 10 DIP switches can do it with the switch setting 6-7-9. I don't think you need a Syncinator for it in any case, as IIRC the Futura SX outputs separate sync.
Once you have that sense code set up, the resolution is controlled by the rotary switch on the card. Setting the rotary switch to position 4 gives you 1024x768.
As far as not being able to set resolutions in the control panel, that's fairly normal for old Mac video cards; they were designed for fixed-resolution monitors where the card detected the appropriate resolution at boot using the monitor sense pins, and that's the resolution you got. Multisync monitors and on-the-fly resolution switching didn't really become a thing until later.